OK-Here is a question. Have you ever had someone in your life who is emotionally high maintenance and needy? And are they really this way or are they just self centered? There are apparently people in this world that think that everything revolves around them. Someone is not being nice to them, or someone never calls them, or they are being mistreated in some way. If you are one of these people, I have a news flash for you. The world does not revolve around you.
Neither I or anyone else I know, spends our time trying to come up with ways to please you. For that matter, neither do we sit around trying to think up ways to hurt your feelings. It is not my personal responsibility to see to your emotional well being. That's YOUR job. If you feel hurt or left out it is YOUR responsibility to express that to those around you. I have a suggestion. Call and invite some of the people you think are ignoring you over for lunch. Make the first move. If you are one of these people, it is not the job of everyone else in the world to keep the relationship going. YOU could take the first step.
I know it's scary. Maybe if you put forth a little effort, everyone would see that you are trying. All we see now is a lot of talk. And the fact that you hold US completely accountable for having a relationship with YOU. You put forth NO EFFORT what so ever, then blame everyone else for your lonely state. Get off your butt and do something about it. Quit blaming all of us for the way you feel about yourself. We all want to be your friend, but all you do is bring people down and point out everything that is wrong with them. YOU my friend, are not perfect either. The Bible says, "For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God". That includes Y-O-U.
Sorry if I seem harsh. Everyone is tired of the blame you place on others for your general lack of happiness. Sorry buddy, that's a burden I simply do not have to take on.
No one is going out of their way anymore to try to make you feel included. We have all done our part and yours too. From here on out, it's up to you. Take the focus off yourself and shift it to other people. You might just be surprised. Good Luck!